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M8S

Thina Desancic & Tyson Murphy Wedding

So much is shit right now let’s just focus on something gr8.

Thina Desancic & Tyson Murphy

These 2 m8s got married.

Adam Nix and Joey Ng at Thina Desancic and Tyson Murphy Wedding, Ojai, CA

They knew

Thina Desancic

the moment he saw her

Louie The Dog

and smelled each other’s butts

Joey Ng Charlotte McLachlan. Ojai, CA

that they’d be m8s for life.

Adam Nix Joey Ng Kissing

And that first comes love

Thina Desancic Tyson Murphy wedding Ojai,CA

then comes marriage

Baby Zali

then practice making babies and if that doesn’t happen right away don’t be discouraged.

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Just remember to have a laugh

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slow dance

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eat cake

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more cake

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and doncha forget champagne

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or she won’t let you touch that booty.
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and to love each other, immensely.

This entry was written by Joey, posted on February 2, 2017 at 1:14 pm, filed under Babes, Friends, Love, Photos and tagged , , , , , , , , . Leave a comment or view the discussion at the permalink.

Free Cashmere Cat

Let him into your heart

and you won’t be so sad, boys.

This entry was written by Joey, posted on August 6, 2015 at 2:40 pm, filed under Events, Los Angeles, Music, Photos and tagged , , , , , , . Leave a comment or view the discussion at the permalink.

SMILE

This entry was written by Joey, posted on September 27, 2010 at 9:49 am, filed under Los Angeles, Photos and tagged , , , , , . Leave a comment or view the discussion at the permalink.

Reaction formation

: a psychological defense mechanism in which one form of behavior substitutes for or conceals a diametrically opposed repressed impulse in order to protect against it.

– Merriam-Webster dictionary

Some people burn bridges, I tend to hurl wrecking balls at them. Drunken fists full.

Sometimes we say and do things we don’t mean
because it’s easier than being vulnerable.

To get a reaction, even if it’s a bad one. So you can run away from an insurmountable problem you’ve created than to admit and endure what’s really bothering you.

This entry was written by Joey, posted on September 19, 2010 at 8:08 am, filed under Psychology, Self-diagnoses and tagged , , , , , . Leave a comment or view the discussion at the permalink.

Miss you, LA

Multi-coloured print romper. Junko Watanabe, Los Angeles Purrr Remake. $30.

Photos by the blogdaddy, Tony Pierce

This entry was written by Joey, posted on September 3, 2010 at 2:13 am, filed under Joey Ng, Los Angeles, Photos and tagged , , , , , , , . Leave a comment or view the discussion at the permalink.

Sym symm-e try

This entry was written by Joey, posted on August 8, 2010 at 4:23 am, filed under Friends, Joey Ng, Photos, San Francisco and tagged , , , , , , , , . Leave a comment or view the discussion at the permalink.

Neither joy nor luck

Things we learn from our mothers. Like how to love.
I was about four when my mother told me that she didn’t marry for love.
That people generally don’t. But that it was just the right time.
Cuz my daddy was an honest man,
from a good family,
he wasn’t going to hurt her.
Cuz he asked and she was nearly 30.

She said “always be with someone who loves you more than you love them.”
She did.
Because to love someone
more than they do you, would be to suffer
and I, her daughter, did not deserve to live a life in pain.

And so I vowed, never to settle for a schmuck I didn’t respect, didn’t ridiculously adore
just to be safe yet unsatiated.

But these men, with all their genius and magic-stry,
I suppose, never wanted to settle with me – the one who’d always pretend
to love him less.

The things we learn from our mothers.

This entry was written by Joey, posted on August 3, 2010 at 4:58 am, filed under Love, Photos, Self-diagnoses, Writing and tagged , , , , , , , . Leave a comment or view the discussion at the permalink.

The handsomest

This entry was written by Joey, posted on July 22, 2010 at 2:50 am, filed under Friends, Photos, San Francisco and tagged , , . Leave a comment or view the discussion at the permalink.

Tell-all Tuesdays:
Before you ask any question

You ask, I tell. Selection of questions posted on Tuesdays.

How many men have you slept with?
Very few, I rarely truly fall asleep with another person in bed with me. Read this.

Why’d you and the morgan waters show break up????????
I’ve never been in a relationship with a television show.

Would you ever want to try again with the one who got away? I feel like he took a little piece of your heart and every time you write about him it makes me misty in the eye.
The magic of writing about how you feel in regards to people you care for is that those feelings are generally universal. At any given moment I could be writing about anyone, or several ones and/or in reference to one or many applicable instances.



Yes, a long time ago, there was one who took a giant piece of my heart. Maybe even an entire ventricle. Not so much because he ‘got away’ than the fact that he made a conscious decision to be with someone else. I have absolutely no desire to be recklessly in love, under-appreciated and humiliated again.



As for the men who’ve chipped away at the little pieces after that, well, none of our relationships had passed the point of no return. You never know what could happen.



Thank you for reading, though. Dry your eyes, mate.

I think you reveal quite a bit about yourself on the internet. Why do you do that?
I’ve been blogging as early as geocities was around. It started with sharing photos and thoughts with friends long before the advent of facebook. Coming from an international school, my social circle was scattered across the world in the final years of high school. It then became natural for me to document compulsively. I found my outlet for creativity. 



Some people keep their diaries locked up under their beds, I keep mine on the internet. Maybe someone will read something and think “yes, me too” or laugh a little or gain an understanding of another’s perspective.



I don’t want to be alone with my memories.

What is something that not many people know about you?
I’m irrationally afraid of my own mortality. For example, I once walked out of the Simpsons movie (SIMPSONS!) because the scene set in the future where they live in a bubble made me realise I wasn’t going to be alive in year 20-whatever and had a panic attack.

What’s your favourite song right now?
I’m Not the Sun by Arkells. Meredith introduced me to it a few months ago and I still haven’t tired of it.

Are you a sports fan? Who are your favorite teams?
Depends on the sport and the game. Lakers (Basketball), England (Football), Canada (Life).

Got a question for me? Ask away here.

This entry was written by Joey, posted on July 13, 2010 at 2:13 am, filed under Tell-all Tuesdays and tagged , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , . Leave a comment or view the discussion at the permalink.

Success is

GAME NOT OVER UNTIL YOU WIN.

That’s my mentality.
Play until you win.

This entry was written by Joey, posted on June 28, 2010 at 12:49 am, filed under Photos, Self-diagnoses and tagged , , . Leave a comment or view the discussion at the permalink.

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